tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post2607265702585434145..comments2023-10-05T05:20:59.743-04:00Comments on Piedmont Writer: How Anne Got Her Groove BackAnne Gallagherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05816355522284492131noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-85643345728234265282013-03-03T11:17:47.206-05:002013-03-03T11:17:47.206-05:00I went through this last year. I turned off commen...I went through this last year. I turned off comments for seven months and had to really figure out why the hell my blog is for. I did figure out and I'm in a much, much happier spot now! My blog is My Corner. It's my own little place where if people want to stop by, they will. I discovered I get a lot less comments now, but I don't mind. I've also noticed I get more readers/fans there than I used to, and that's pretty nice knowing it's a spot my fans can go to learn a bit more about me. I feel more real on my blog than anywhere else online and that is priceless!<br /><br />So happy you're at a good spot with your blog now, Anne! It's different for everyone. *hugs*Michelle D. Argylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09696465137285587646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-62990356783132655042013-03-01T11:50:02.286-05:002013-03-01T11:50:02.286-05:00Don -- Shucks, Don, you make me blush.
El -- I...Don -- Shucks, Don, you make me blush.<br /><br />El -- I'm so glad you liked RY. I still cry every time I read it.<br /><br />Susan -- Ricky Nelson had it right, that's for sure. And I guess that's just about where I am now.<br /><br />Sarah -- You know, it's the caring thing. Funny, I don't care so much about the blog or the comments, but the PEOPLE I've met and become friends with. That's what drives me crazy about not blogging. And it turn, always makes me come back.<br /><br />Carolina -- Yeah, that's what it was turning into for me, a chore. And I didn't like it one bit. But I think now that I know when I'll take a break the weight of that is gone.Anne Gallagherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816355522284492131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-46437952670084244232013-02-28T14:10:17.417-05:002013-02-28T14:10:17.417-05:00You know, I think this is a really important step ...You know, I think this is a really important step we all have to go through if we're going to keep blogging. I'm getting there myself. And I'm glad to see you continue on. I figure I'll keep it up as long as it doesn't feel like chore--and I'll do what I can to keep it like feeling like a chore. Otherwise, what's the point, right?Carolina M. Valdez Schneiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11589934533051907801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-55135052699946414602013-02-28T11:29:17.255-05:002013-02-28T11:29:17.255-05:00I can honestly say that blogging got a lot easier ...I can honestly say that blogging got a lot easier for me when i stopped worrying so much about it, and stopped caring about followers and even comments to a lesser extent.Sarah Ahiershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02795455714801965956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-7801819688180115012013-02-27T23:12:06.766-05:002013-02-27T23:12:06.766-05:00Good for you. Like that old Ricky Nelson song went...Good for you. Like that old Ricky Nelson song went, "Ya can't please everyone, so you gotta please yourself." <br /><br />Sounds like you've come to peace with what you want to do and have your priorities straight. That's the best any of us can do.<br /><br />Me, I'm mostly as happy as a pig in the mud, so I guess that means I've found my groove. I sometimes spend more time on Blogger than I probably should, but I enjoy it, and I don't hold a grudge. So I forgive myself.<br /><br />By the way, I almost sent you an email last week, but decided not to bug you during your break. But last Friday, my post was about your Rhode Island. <br /><br />Welcome back. Susan Flett Swiderskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09425315552148200073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-36605354955980934112013-02-27T20:20:46.720-05:002013-02-27T20:20:46.720-05:00...loved reading this post, Anne. You are truly on......loved reading this post, Anne. You are truly one of a kind, my dear ;)<br /><br />Whether the groove has returned or not, "Remembering You" proved a teary-fabulous read. Well done!<br /><br />El Elliot Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06319271528871804399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-47913081603954933582013-02-27T19:06:43.374-05:002013-02-27T19:06:43.374-05:00I believe a lot of bloggers, especially those of u...I believe a lot of bloggers, especially those of us who have been around awhile, have been through that stage of trying to make our blogs into something that really isn't us...or what we want. The ideal follower is the one who comes back time and again because they care what you have to say...not because they're enticed in some way.<br /><br />That's why I keep coming back. :)DL Hammonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007260062331783715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-84513628291674247282013-02-27T17:51:25.145-05:002013-02-27T17:51:25.145-05:00Em -- I've given up getting followers. I can&#...Em -- I've given up getting followers. I can't do blog-hops anymore. They're just too time consuming. And I prefer quality over quantity any time.<br /><br />Maria -- Yeah, Les and I finally figured out we were a semester apart. But we had the same professors. And like you said, blogging is sometimes like high school. And I was so not in the "in" crowd. I've found some incredible people too as I reach out farther. <br /><br />Summer -- But that's what fairies are all about -- floating on the breeze. You do what you have to do. With wings!<br /><br />Bridget -- There's nothing wrong with slow and steady, and with what you've got going on, you need that. And I know you get more than one comment. <br /><br />Linda -- Amen, sister. You have to find what works for your own groove and take the rest as it comes.<br /><br />Bru-- Your candidness on your blog confirms in my heart that you definitely are a "maverick". You're not afraid of anyone or anything. So go you! Keep on doing what you're doing cuz I love it!<br /><br />Linda -- Don't look at me and see success. I'm just as messed up as the next person. But I know when to let go and give up when I need to. I'm just glad that when I get back I have all you wonderful people here with me. <br /><br />Karen -- Aw thanks. Blog envy, such a great term. And I'm sure we've all suffered from it from time to time. I just decided I had to let it go. It wasn't serving any purpose. <br /><br />Michele -- I saw you had left a comment earlier. Where did you go?<br />Anne Gallagherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816355522284492131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-1778196306846008692013-02-27T16:35:42.550-05:002013-02-27T16:35:42.550-05:00I've certainly struggled with my blogging groo...I've certainly struggled with my blogging groove but like you I am trying to rediscover my passion for it by pleasing myself. Travis Erwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09420879160702098979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-50931323984638678612013-02-27T12:54:13.012-05:002013-02-27T12:54:13.012-05:00Glad to hear it! Because yours is one of the few b...Glad to hear it! Because yours is one of the few blogs I never miss if I can help it. And there will always be someone with more-- followers, comments, book sales, clothes, money, personality, whatever--which is why blog envy, like all envy, is a dead end street.Karen Jones Gowenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01153821980625034810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-3443946038152156042013-02-27T12:36:55.999-05:002013-02-27T12:36:55.999-05:00It's all relative, isn't it? I look at you...It's all relative, isn't it? I look at your blog and wish I had such a successful interaction with readers.<br /><br />I've lost the fun of blogging this last year too and want to get it back. There's so much seriousness, not to mention isolation, in the writing life that I think we need more fun interaction with others for balance.<br /><br />I'm glad you found your groove again. Hang loose. :-)Linda Cassidy Lewishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17105748665483726537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-90261119395170322882013-02-27T10:58:01.782-05:002013-02-27T10:58:01.782-05:00Like with everything else in life, I have had to l...Like with everything else in life, I have had to learn with blogging to just do what I can. To accept my limitations and give it my best despite them. I hope if I post something it might resonate with someone, or make them laugh, or make them think. But at the end of it all, I write what I want to write on my blog and I don't bow to trends or go to extreme lengths others do to try to get followers who most likely never really read it again anyway and only join to try to get you to join their blog back (that gets to me!)<br /><br />I also read a lot less-- LOT less-- blogs than I used to. But you'll notice that yours is always at the top of my list not to miss.<br /><br />So I think you're doing something very right indeed :~) Everyone misses you when you're away. What more could a blogger hope for? <br /><br />xoxo<br />bruFebruary Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01078037856070486022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-19514901438782146052013-02-27T10:54:31.921-05:002013-02-27T10:54:31.921-05:00I believe it will, for Anne and you are more than ...I believe it will, for Anne and you are more than welcome. <br /><br />Cheers and boogie boogie.The Happy Whiskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13438469476168485775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-8882632657345095432013-02-27T10:39:21.685-05:002013-02-27T10:39:21.685-05:00Glad you got your groove back.
One thing I'm...Glad you got your groove back. <br /><br />One thing I'm learning about social media--blogs, FB, Twitter, & all the rest--is that you can't do everything and still have time to write books. You can't be everything to everybody, no matter how much you'd like to be. So you have to do what you can, and find peace with the rest. :)Linda G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04576828490765434497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-70284236483361889682013-02-27T10:18:40.762-05:002013-02-27T10:18:40.762-05:00Well, you know me--if I have a groove at all, it i...Well, you know me--if I have a groove at all, it is very slow and moderately steady. I can't possibly keep up with all the blogs I used to--my life has become so very complicated. Besides, I guess I have always had pretty low expectations for my blogging. I just wanted a way to get my writing out there, even if for a small audience. If I get one comment, my expectations have been exceeded!J.B. Chicoinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06894797553204276281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-22403606340977825712013-02-27T09:30:08.822-05:002013-02-27T09:30:08.822-05:00I don't have a groove. I'm floating in the...I don't have a groove. I'm floating in the breeze. I can't be anything else and much like you, while sometimes I have a little green monster, most times- It's my blog and I do what I can when I can.<br />This is a great post. Thank you for sharing.Summer Rosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08122694893668693244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-45117048685590571142013-02-27T08:51:59.738-05:002013-02-27T08:51:59.738-05:00I didn't know you knew Les Edgerton. I loved h...I didn't know you knew Les Edgerton. I loved his book, Hooked. I so rarely do reviews but I reviewed it for a large SFF community because I enjoyed it so much.<br /><br />As for the getting your groove--you go, girl. I figured this out a couple of years ago. The blogging community had gotten to be too much like high school and I had to pull back and find other bloggers who put the reader first.<br /><br />I suppose that's a natural evolution if you're caught in a blog vacuum. Once I expanded my reach I found all sorts of people who had interesting things to say and had great dialog between commenters. That's what I want.Maria Zanninihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01604862636922299273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-75841883599863958302013-02-27T08:50:57.022-05:002013-02-27T08:50:57.022-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Maria Zanninihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01604862636922299273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-66628536946308397762013-02-27T08:33:07.471-05:002013-02-27T08:33:07.471-05:00Glad you got your groove back, and I'll 'G...Glad you got your groove back, and I'll 'Groove with you'...oh wait, that an Isley Brothers lyric. I share your sentiments about not getting many comments and I have to remind myself that I write to hone my story-telling craft. I'll go and check the page views and feel a bit better. I get overwhelmed though with blog hops but know that this is a way of increasing followers.<br />Karen Baldwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01522178275164058849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-72633530309562254902013-02-27T08:13:32.118-05:002013-02-27T08:13:32.118-05:00Yvonne -- That slippery ungraded gravel road -- yu...Yvonne -- That slippery ungraded gravel road -- yup, that's what it is. But you know, you've got a good set of tires on that ride. I love your 55 Friday's and I'll always read them. I may not comment, but I'll always read them. The way you write poetry is just awe inspiring and I wish I could have some of that. Thanks for stopping by.<br /><br />Sherie -- Oh gosh, sounds like you've just had your fill of life these last few months. I'm sorry you had to deal with so much, but I'm glad you found your groove again. What doesn't stomp us, makes us stronger. And it sounds to me like you're just chomping at the bit to get out of the gate. Go you!<br /><br />HW -- Thanks so much for your thoughts. Yes, blogging is supposed to be fun, and I think this time around it may just become that way once again. I hope so. Anne Gallagherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816355522284492131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-50089356720779217912013-02-27T08:05:53.291-05:002013-02-27T08:05:53.291-05:00I am glad you're coming back to the fun of blo...I am glad you're coming back to the fun of blogging. I think it's great fun. But some turn it into work and hey, to each their own. But for me, it's about the fun and connecting with funny bloggers. <br /><br />They crack me up.<br /><br />Cheers to you Anne. Keep finding that fun. You rock.The Happy Whiskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13438469476168485775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-70897105923418170792013-02-27T07:09:16.553-05:002013-02-27T07:09:16.553-05:00I really enjoyed this post. I can't also compl...I really enjoyed this post. I can't also completely relate. So glad to hear you're finding your groove again. Me? I'm happy to say we must be drinking the same water. Over the past six months, my family has had loads of health issues from two surgeries, broken bones, physical therapy, autoimmune disease diagnosis, etc... Yeah. It's been a blast. LOL But over the past two weeks, I've finally been plotting, blogging, and finding that writer's groove again. Here's to us both!!!S.A. Larsenッhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06241633272588383935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4174226224096540850.post-3456101948447576892013-02-27T07:00:25.496-05:002013-02-27T07:00:25.496-05:00I'm so happy to read this. I'll probably n...I'm so happy to read this. I'll probably never have even a thousand followers and that's okay. I too, have elderly parents to take care of and lots of novels to write! Blogging sometimes helps the focus and the occasional pat on the back is always nice. Yes, college was life-transforming, especially when I went back for creative writing as an adult. Exchanging ideas about books and writing and all things literary was heaven. I can't go to college forever so I guess blogging is a substitute, if slightly inferior.:) As for finding my groove...it's always there but sometimes I slide in and out of the slippery thing, like an ungraded gravel road. Which makes the ride all the more exciting. I'm glad you have your groove back because yo uknow I'm going to have something for you to do later today or tonight!Yvonne Osbornehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18212188414972694795noreply@blogger.com